Do you find yourself having the same arguments repeatedly? Whether it's about money, chores, or who plans dates, these conflicts can be frustrating. Maybe you're going through a transition, such as having a child, opening up your relationship, or changing its structure. Or perhaps there's something you've wanted to discuss for a long time but feel too afraid to bring up.

We all come from unique backgrounds and life experiences that shape who we are today. These differences make us lovable but also mean we have different wounds that can get triggered in relationships. Part of building a strong relationship is understanding our own issues and developing empathy for our partner's. Often, the fight about the dishes isn't really about the dishes.

​I help couples explore the underlying dynamics of their conflicts, build mutual understanding, and improve communication. Together, we will work on bridging gaps and distinguishing personal responsibilities. My goal is to create a safe space for both of you to express your experiences, deeply understand your issues, and make choices that lead to a more fulfilling connection.

​I use a social justice lens, paying close attention to issues of power, oppression, and privilege in your relationship and in my interactions with you. I am kink and polyamory affirming.

I have worked with couples on a range of issues, but some of my areas of interest and specialty are: 

• multiculturalism and cross-cultural issues 
• impact of trauma on relationship dynamics
• consensual non-monogamy and non-traditional relationship structures
• family planning, pregnancy, postpartum, and adjusting to parenthood
• issues around identity (gender, race, class, sexuality, and so forth)

​​You can email me at therapy@junelin.com or give me a call at 415-570-8603.