Do you find yourself having the same arguments repeatedly? Whether it's about money, chores, or who plans dates, these conflicts can be frustrating. Maybe you're going through a transition, such as having a child, opening up your relationship, or changing its structure. Or perhaps there's something you've wanted to discuss for a long time but feel too afraid to bring up.

We all come from unique backgrounds and life experiences that shape who we are today. These differences make us lovable but also mean we have different wounds that can get triggered in relationships. Part of building a strong relationship is understanding our own issues and developing empathy for our partners. Often, the fight about the dishes isn't really about the dishes.

I help couples clarify the life they want to build together, the kind of partners they aspire to be, and the challenges that get in the way. In our work, we’ll explore the deeper dynamics in your relationship and create space for each of you to grow toward your own goals. 

​I use a social justice lens, paying close attention to issues of power, oppression, and privilege in your relationship and in my interactions with you. I am kink and polyamory affirming.

I have worked with couples on a range of issues, but some of my areas of interest and specialty are: 

• multiculturalism and cross-cultural issues 
• impact of trauma on relationship dynamics
• consensual non-monogamy and non-traditional relationship structures
• family planning, pregnancy, postpartum, and adjusting to parenthood
• issues around identity (gender, race, class, sexuality, and so forth)

​​You can email me at therapy@junelin.com or give me a call at 415-570-8603.

Before you start couples therapy, please read this page on How to Get the Most out of Couples Therapy.